..And why you should try it, too.
Prior to moving to Paris for a few months in 2012, I decided to test the feeling of being there on my own. I was quite confident that I was going to like it, but I was curious and wanted a taste of it all. As I had never traveled alone before, at least not outside of Norway, it was a first-time experience for me in many ways.
Go solo – or ahead
What I did, was perfect as a soft start. I booked a trip with my best friend, but went there a few days ahead of her itinerary. This gave me the best of both worlds in the same trip, and boosted my solo-traveller confidence.
What it also made me realise, is how you discover a place in a completely different way when you are there by yourself. You use your senses in a different way, taking it all in instead of focusing on conversations or plans. Try it – see how you smell more, hear more, see more. It’s wonderful.
I also learned a lot about why Paris is a perfect city to go to by yourself. Or a few days ahead of your travel companion(-s), that is another option. I have done it both ways many times, and I absolutely adore it.
For the record, I love being there with others, too.
Why Paris is perfect for solo-travelling
1. Safety First
Safety is a primary concern for most solo travellers, and Paris stands out as a city where you can feel secure. With its well-lit streets, extensive public transportation network, and a visible police presence, navigating Paris solo is generally safe. People are out eating and drinking at terraces at all hours until midnight, so there’s usually always someone nearby. Le Marais, Saint-Germain-des-Prés, and Montorgueil are some of the areas that are most well-known for their friendly atmospheres and bustling activity, making them great areas for solo exploration.
2. Easy Navigation
Getting around Paris is a breeze, thanks to its efficient public transport system. The Metro is easy and convenient to use, with clear signage and frequent trains. In general, metro is usually a better alternative than taxis, as traffic is often slow and unpredictable in Paris. Many streets are closed for cars, and we should also keep in mind that the city was not built for cars in the first place. Buses and trams complement the Metro, providing access to all corners of the city.
However, my top recommendation is always to stroll around, unless you are heading too far for that, Paris is incredibly walkable, with many of its iconic landmarks located within close proximity to each other. Additionally, bike-sharing programs like Vélib’ offer a fun and eco-friendly way to see the city. I will shortly get back to biking in Paris in an upcoming post.
3. Sitting alone is completely normal
Sitting alone is never strange in Paris. In the park, at a concert or at a restaurant – dining alone is far from unusual. Bring a book, or just enjoy looking at the people passing by. Cafés, bistros, and restaurants welcome solo diners with open arms. You will never feel strange – at least you will not appear strange in the eyes of people around you. It may take a bit of getting used to for your own part, but that is normal.
There is only one rule for this: DO NOT talk on your phone unless you absolutely have to (in that case, make it quick and with a low voice). I would also recommend you to keep your phone in your bag as much as possible – to be in the moment, and actually enjoy just sitting there.
Trust me, it is good practice, too.
